With the majority of the country’s children now utilizing eLearning aka distance learning for their daily classroom lessons, parents have suddenly found themselves in the role of teacher and educator. This can be intimidating for parents as they navigate these daily lessons and try to establish a new routine, but the good news is there are simple steps you can implement to make the task easier. Take a look at these 10 ways for parents to engage children when eLearning, so you can accomplish more and stress less. Here are 10 practical tips to get you started.
10 Ways Parents can Make Distance Learning Easier for Kids
1. Designate a specific workspace.
One of the best ways to stay focused and keep productivity up is to create a specific work area. This can be a spot at the counter or kitchen table, or even a child sized desk and chair. Make this area fun and visually appealing. Let children display their artwork, make them a name tag, and add pops of color with plants or the child’s favorite stuffed animal. This way the child feels comfortable in the space and knows when he or she arrives, it is time to work and engage. We rarely use our dining room except for holidays, so that’s our schoolroom for distance learning. When school time is done, we close the laptops and chromebooks and leave the area. I think being able to close down for the day is helpful!
For those who don’t have a room to designate, find a place to “shut down” schooling for the day/night. Close the laptops, chromebooks, and put things as out of sight as you can. I learned long ago even just blogging from home that if I left my laptop open, I was far more likely to go look and check emails/work stuff and not stay logged off when my day was done.
2. Plan a daily eLearning routine.
Don’t pressure yourself to make a minute by minute routine for each day. Instead, plan for 2 hours of eLearning to get the assigned tasks done. Decide when these tasks will take place. It can be after breakfast, prior to lunch, at 2 p.m. each afternoon, etc. Choose a time that works well for your child, when you know he or she will be at their best and have energy to stay engaged. General routines are good for all of us right now!
3. Ask your child what motivates them.
Ask your child what type of activities they enjoy. Ask what they enjoy learning about. What motivates them to do these these activities? Take this information and keep it in mind when completing daily lessons. This information can help you develop a daily routine that feels more personalized.
4. Ask your child about the parts of eLearning that may intimidate or confuse them.
Kids can become scared and intimidated when presented with a new way of learning. eLearning is no different and can be off putting. Talk to your child and ask them to share what parts of the process make them nervous. Taking this information can also help you adapt the lessons to their needs. When children feel afraid they may shut down, but addressing these fears can instead keep them engaged.
5. Keep child friendly supplies on hand and ready.
Kids love using fun school supplies. Use these bright pencils, erasers, and other items to keep them engaged and motivated. Keep all supplies readily accessible so the child is not having to get up and look for them. The time you spend looking for supplies is wasted time and can cause the child to become disengaged. Instead, prep your supplies ahead of time and keep their attention. I used an old plastic storage thing with 3 drawers to put supplies in that wasn’t really being used for anything except “stuff” recently…so now it has a home and a purpose.
Just because they have to have the tools doesn’t mean we can’t make them fun! All the fun and silly pens I have accumulated over the years are available for use. The kids vetoed the pen with jingle bells attached on day one, sadly. No one enjoys my musical pens!
6. Don’t hesitate to offer positive reinforcement.
Adults typically thrive off positive reinforcement, and kids are no different. Cheering them on even when they complete the smallest task can be beneficial and keep them motivated. Make it a point to give at least 3 positive compliments or offer small perks when they finish the task at hand. The perks can be something as simple as screen time or a favorite snack. Maybe your kid loves to play games with you- so a reward for that kiddo could even be a game of cards after you eat lunch before returning to school/work.
7. Make time to virtually connect and learn with friends.
Utilize Zoom, Google Hangouts, Messenger Kids or Facetime to connect your child to their classroom friends. They can complete certain tasks such as reading together, taking turns to read to each other or ask questions about the text they are studying. This is a fun way to stay focused on the task while also having a connection with their peers. Especially for younger kids, Messenger Kids is my preference, because parents have to approve who their kids’ friends/contacts are on there. Kids have lots of snapchat style filters available, they can do group video chats, and you know they are in a safe environment.
My youngest and her friend are planning to try to play one another in a game of Battleship from their respective bedrooms- via video chat. Definitely not the same as playing in person, but a fun way to connect all the same.
8. Take your classroom outdoors.
Help children stay engaged by changing the scenery. If you have the chance to take a reading or journaling activity to the yard safely, then do it! The fresh air and nature can help them feel more relaxed and even inspired as they complete the task.
Fresh air and exercise are good for all of us. Physically and emotionally! Let kids practice math or spelling words with sidewalk chalk. That’s a favorite activity for all ages, and you might just find that older kids want to participate as well.
9. Charts can work wonders.
Visual charts can help children stay on task and engaged with the task at hand. You can create charts that monitor their daily reading minutes, or create a daily reading log. A reminder too that reading can be whatever they WANT to read or will be interested in. Graphic novels may not be your ideal for content, but reading is reading.
You can also do a simple chart that they can check as daily tasks are done. We are doing this with my kiddo who rushes through school assignments and just wants to finish and takes zero time to double check that all assignments are complete and submitted online. We’re using a checklist system each morning that we fill in assignments with a dry erase marker, which is tucked into a plastic sleeve, so we can erase things as they are finished. Week one was HARD hard hard hard hard for that kid. Week 2 with this new system was somewhat easier. The patience and dedication to double checking things are done is tough.
At the end of the week, offer a small perk for all boxes checked. There’s lots of great movies being released for home viewing immediately right now, so you could have a special movie night at the end of a week and rent a brand new movie!
10. Frequent breaks are ok!
When you notice a child is becoming burned out or frustrated, it is a good idea to take a 10 minute break. This is a great time to get some water, go to the bathroom, or stretch. New activities or hobbies should not be attempted at this time, just the simple suggestions mentioned above. This way they can get the break they need, without becoming distracted.
Hey teachers! Looking for tips for keeping kids engaged on zoom? My friend Julie has some awesome ideas for you, too!
I have found that getting work done in the morning is when my kids are at their best. I once waited till the afternoon and it backfired on me. The weather was so gorgeous this week for us that we did a lot of our learning outside which was so nice!
Yes distance learning is new phase to both kids and parents. I am still learning to get it myself then to teach kids.
You have definitely made a very thorough system that makes the process of learning at home easier. Thanks for sharing these ideas, they will come in handy.
Jenn @ EngineerMommy says
These are great tips indeed. I think keeping child-friendly supplies on hand is key. I also like the tip of making time to connect with friends.
Jamie H says
As a homeschooling mom, I second the outdoor learning and frequent breaks. I think it’s also so important for people to realize that schooling a few kids takes so much less time than a regular public school day. We typically finish by lunch, so don’t feel like you’re missing something if it doesn’t take all day.
Love all of your tips! I’ve set up a command center in our kitchen. We try to do our physical education class outside of the weather permits!
Great tips! Having a routine is important. Have your kid/s pick the best time for them to work and the time to take necessary breaks.
Cathy Mini says
I don’t have kids at home. But I think it will be very helpful tips for all parents out there.
Gervin Khan says
I am a mother of two and they’re both going to school but if this pandemic virus continue I will let them go under homeschooling program and I definitely need all these helpful tips for sure.
I do not have kids but I can understand the challenges of now schooling the children at home. You provide a lot of good tips. At least parents have options.
Thank you for sharing this. I have to look into getting this for my nieces and nephews.
Amber Myers says
This has been tricky for my kids at time. I help them the best I can! Luckily if they have issues, teachers are available during set times and days.
Pam Wattenbarger says
These are all great tips, Brett! I think it’s especially important to take breaks and to help kids connect with their friends even if it has to be done virtually.